To send your questions directly to Joan, email sexpert seniorplanet. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. I am 49 years old and I know I am very loose. You can fondle suck and pull on the lips and clitoral stimulation. I mean, there are jokes and euphemisms abound, but I've had sex with some girls where it was noticeable. Every month in Sex at Our Age, award-winning senior sexpert Joan Price answers your questions about everything from loss of desire to solo sex and partner issues. Man, people are super upset that I described this.
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Vaginas aren't actually that deep, but they expand and get deeper during arousal to prepare for sex "tenting"however this can go wrong just like self-lubrication can go wrong with some women. How to Maintain — or Regain! Make an ok sign. Weak pelvic floor is a common condition, and there are experts, called Pelvic Floor Therapists, who will work with you on getting your pelvic floor muscles back into shape. Having sex with a loose vagina is like receiving a limp handshake.