Not one of them has the cojones to say that to our face, of course. I am lucky to have beaten the odds and to have found a great boyfriend in India, but it did take some effort. You will find love when you least expect it. But here is the nub: Such a lovely voice, fireworks…. Even if the guy you are dating has his fair share of experience in the bedroom, he may still expect you to be a Vestal Virgin.
They could look like Danny DeVito 20 years from now, and yet they will still expect you to look like Aishwarya Rai.
Dating in India: The Do’s and Don’ts as a Foreign Woman
Instead of being annoyed that other Indian men do this and worrying it makes you look bad, realize that this IS happening, and people are traveling India dealing with this and try to do positive things to balance this out or help stop these things when you see them happening. Its a complete no, we do not want to talk about her and you should have an Indian wife. The divorce and kid thing also has nothing to do with you, if you were Indian and the same thing you would have the same issues, and it is not that you are divorced it is that they believe you have a pattern for leaving your husband so you will repeat. This is SO true. So it is expected that his mom will worry about him and call him to make sure he is okay and behaving himself. Well written guidelines, but in India, parents irrespective of having a son or a daughter, do worry about their kids even when adults.