Combining sex and love leads to a sense of vulnerability and is anxiety provoking because many women and men are afraid of being completely committed to a significant other, especially if they have been previously hurt emotionally. I will call them survival and healthy. My husband of 20 yrs is Narcissistic. They feel guilty about wanting, seeking or experiencing pleasure in lovemaking, and expect negative consequences or actual punishment. Reply Are you freeking serious Reply.
Perceiving sex as immoral or bad:
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This can show up in an overall fear of losing control or in more specific fears, such as fears of making noise or moving, or even fears of urinating or defecating when letting go. Other women are not. The amount of sexual abuse in the world. He had an affair in and it continued. Women who rely heavily upon maintaining control as a self-protective defense mechanism are prone to be resistive to a freely expressive sexual encounter. Reply SSRI medications that are commonly used for anxiety and depression treatment have known, documented negative effects on both libido AND genital sensitivity.